Positive Self Talk And Self Awareness
Self Talk has been identified as a free tool and endowment from our Creator which each human being is free to use to achieve his or her desires.
Motivators have explained that the degree of achieving one’s desires depend largely on the degree to which one controls his Self Talk, either positively or negatively. A positive Self Talk will ensure a rapid realization of one’s desires while a Negative Self Talk will end in failure and misery.
A starting point for Positive Self Talk is to be aware of one’s position in relation to one’s needs and desires. A person’s Self Awareness could relate to him that presently he does not possess a house and there is need for him to have a beautiful house to live in with his family.
Self awareness is a trusted instrument of Self Talk, because a person is in the best position to visualize himself honestly and proffer solutions. He will find balance and judge his ability to interact with others frankly and confidently. Positive Self Awareness will help him to know where to go in future. With positive Self Awareness and Positive Self Talk he will go a long way in achieving his desires.
A practical step in this direction is visualizing oneself talking to himself in a question and answer session and proffering solutions to overcome difficulties.
A man can visualize himself sitting on a chair across the room facing himself in a friendly posture and engage in the following dialogue:
ME: My friend, how are you this morning?
My Reply: I am fine. Except for the lack of money.
ME: Good that you’re fine. But why castigating yourself for your lack of money?
My Reply: Well, I think I need to have money to have the good things of life.
ME: Do you think castigating yourself will solve that problem?
My Reply: I think by castigating myself I will work harder and earn more money.
ME: Castigating yourself cannot solve that problem. It may lead to more problems.
My Reply: How?
ME: It may lead to unhappiness and misery and failure.
My Reply: So what’s the solution?
ME: Positive Thinkings and beliefs. By thinking and believing that those things you desire are realizable, and believing that you are already on your way to realising your desires.
My Reply: Umm Umm Thinking and believing!
ME:You have to think in that way always until the spirit in you start believing what you are thinking. Then take positive steps towards your goals. Simple and easy!
My Reply: Sure.
ME: Relax. Find a good silent place to think and start believing you are a successful man . Think of the vast available opportunities you have and begin ways to utilize them.
From a conversation like this you can see emptiness gradually giving way to hope.
Abu Aremu is an internet marketer and motivator. He writes on many topics including guides to positive mental attitudes and how to achieve greater heights in life. You can read life changing articles and resources from him at http://www.positiveselftalkguide.com and contact him at support@positiveselftalkguide.com
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